Every child is different, and as in all things, they will start to potty train when they are ready. Typically between the ages of 18 months and 36 months. I say this with caution. This is the typical “start” of it…not that they are necessarily trained right away. Boys often start later than girls. The median age is 28 months for girls and 33 months for boys. When to start should be based on when they are showing signs they are ready, versus a specific age. Starting potty training before your child is ready can backfire and lead to frustration for everyone involved. This can ultimately result in potty training taking longer to complete.
So what signs should a parent look for?
- They can keep their diaper dry for 2 hours or longer while they are active
- They are capable of following simple instructions
- They show an understanding and use the words about going potty ( ie: “I pooped my diaper, can you change me?”)
- They are aware that they are going potty in their diaper (tend to stop what they are doing for a minute or two while they go in their diaper)
- Show an interest in using the potty or wearing underwear
- They are capable of pulling down their pants, training pants, diaper/pull-up (undressing)
- They are capable of sitting still for a little while- this is necessary to go potty
- They can walk and run well
- The child has an ever-increasing desire for independence/ autonomy
If your child will be going through a big change soon, such as changing childcare, moving, having a new sibling, losing the family unit, etc., it is often better to wait while these things have calmed down, before attempting to potty train. You want to start during a relatively stress-free period.
As to how to begin potty training, there are many different thoughts on that. Below I will list several different ways/thoughts along with their corresponding links so that you can find the way that seems to fit your life and family. Everyone has their preference.
In the linked article article here there is a concise description of how you could choose to potty train. This is a brief description, and it could be modified to your family’s needs/desires. Many families find it helpful to use rewards/ charts etc. This again depends on your child and situation. Consistency is key, between all people that care for your child. Do not stress, it will happen. Potty training is not always easy, and it requires you and your child to take risks as it will pay off in the end.
If you would like further information, or if we could be of more assistance to you, please reach out to us at VK Early Learning, and we would be happy to help you.
